
Jen was one of the three interviewers that interrogated me during my second interview for my job. The questions I remember her asking were along the lines of “Do you have a problem sharing an office? Can you focus with distractions going on?” And I walked away feeling good about the interview, and pretty sure that Jen would be my new office-mate. I was right.
Jen was a great office-mate. Her kids are younger than mine, but she’s as proud of them as I am of mine. And she has a wonderful sense of humor with just the right amount of sarcasm thrown in.
Several months ago, she brought her leftover birthday cake in for the office staff to finish off. It was a fluffy, very light pink concoction. And it was then that I heard her sorrowful missed cake opportunity story.
The story takes place back when Jen was young…kindergarten or first grade. Back in the days when hopscotch and jacks mattered and holding hands with a boy was a serious commitment. Her family was attending the annual school fair. Little Jen was running with delight from one game to the next, giggling with her school mates and trying with all her heart to win a “cool” prize in the beanbag throw.
And then she saw IT. The ultimate cake. The cake that would haunt her far into her adult life.
It was fluffy and pink and a little lopsided and…and…and perfect! She had to have it.
Little Jen tried with all her heart to win the cake walk. Round and round and round she went, eyes never leaving that cake. But, alas, it was not meant to be. Right before her eyes, the cake was chosen by someone else, and through a misty veil of tears (did I mention that we also share a love for Anne of Green Gables?), she saw her dream vanish.
Fast-forward to 2008. She’s now happily married with two wonderful boys and a fantastic office-mate. But the image of that cake has never left her. Her loving husband tries every year to find someone who can re-create the cake. But every year, there’s something just not quite right. This year, it’s not quite pink enough, and the icing isn’t swirly and fluffy enough.
As I listen to this story and her description of her cake, a memory starts to form in my mind. A memory of birthday cakes made by my Mom and covered with what we referred to as “marshmallow frosting.” It was my brother Eric’s favorite frosting and what he always requested on his birthday cakes. I resolved to test my theory for her next birthday.
But, alas, Jen is moving on to another job. There will not be an upcoming birthday cake opportunity. So I decided I had to move, and move fast if I wanted to test my frosting theory. I decided to make her farewell cake.
Since she never saw the inside of the cake, it was really open to interpretation. Her interpretation was a white cake with a “yummy” filling. But it had to be a really yummy filling. So between the layers of the cake, I filled it with some of my homemade 3 Berry Jam. After all, homemade jam is yummy. Right?

Then I made the frosting. It’s really very easy to make. It’s just a meringue with corn syrup added. And to make it pink, I added grenadine which added a wonderful flavor. The most difficult part of the whole procedure was transporting the cake. I don’t have one of those cake carrier things (probably should put it on my Christmas list), and the frosting is REALLY sticky. But with ingenuity and a combination of skewers and plastic wrap I managed to wrap it well enough for transport. And off to work we went, the cake and I.
I told Jen the cake was in the kitchen, and made sure she understood that I would not be offended to hear if it wasn’t right. After all, I was just making an attempt. But when she came back from seeing it in the kitchen, there was joy in her voice and a smile on her face. It was incredibly close to her memory. It wasn’t tall enough – one more layer would have done it, and there weren’t enough peaks in the frosting. But otherwise, Wow!

But the satisfaction is bittersweet. I’m thrilled that I got so close to that distant cake memory, but Jen, I’m going to miss you around the office. We made a great team. Good luck with your new job, and I’ll be sure to say hi when we bump into each other in the grocery store (or casino!)

Marshmallow Frosting
3 egg whites
pinch salt
1/4 c sugar
3/4 c corn syrup
flavoring (vanilla, grenadine, your choice)
Beat egg whites and salt until soft peaks form.
Add sugar, 1 tablespoon at a time, continuing to beat until stiff peaks form.
With beaters still running, slowly add corn syrup and flavoring.